If you are aware of violence, these are some helpful suggestions in what to do.
Don’t endanger your own safety. Call 000 in an emergency.
If you’re aware of violence, you can:
- Talk to a friend who is verbally or physically abusive to his partner in a private, calm moment, rather than in public or directly after an abusive incident. Tell him that what you witnessed was not okay, and he needs to get some help.
- Talk to a group of the perpetrator’s friends and, together, decide on a course of action.
- If you have witnessed a friend or colleague abusing a partner, talk to a group of the victim’s friends and strategise a group response.
- Talk to the woman – at some point – and let her know you saw what was going on and you’re willing to help her.
- If you’re a high school or college student, approach a trusted teacher, social worker, or health professional. Tell them what you’ve observed and ask them to do something, or ask them to advise you on how you might proceed.
In situations when your friends are engaged in harassing or abusive behaviour, such as sexually harassing a woman walking by, you can:
- Distract your friends by saying something like “chill out, guys”.
- Try to convince your peers to stop.
- Walk away, signalling your rejection of their harassing behaviour.
Source – White Ribbon website